When I turn 46, I say "No more nonsense": 2020

Thursday, 11 June 2020

Phap visits.... a birthday party..... and OMFG...... I get LAID......

5:00

Open eyes and coffee.....

6:30
No Lisa again. she's found a new friend... a st00pid one....

nap

7:30

8:00
Breakfast with Lisa while Dung cleans...... Why do I call Granny "Granny" and not "my Granny"....

NAP

10:30...Wow...

12:00
Half a G&T to go at Bobby's....... the Frenchies are leaving on Sunday.... Anni won, I guess....sad..... buoi chieu starts at 13:00..... so I better get back home..... have a nap.... and wait for Phap.....

13:15
waiting...... might as well have a nap..... maybe he'll wake me up..... LOL.... keep DREAMING, old FOOL !

14:45

16:45
OMG I'm really getting my sleep today..... still no Phap..... oh WTF?

18:15
I'm sitting at Lisa's hotel when I see him walking up.....

Birthday girl thinks I'm taking a picture of HER..... LITTLE does she know

Look at the ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS guy behind her ;-)

Even Lisa (Lesbian)....says....OMG....he is so handsome....but a bit short....I have no problem with the latter ;-)

Him and I sit at my house for a while........then he wants to walk........we walk to a dark part of the beach.... we lie on our backs looking at the stars (WTF?)..... I roll towards him and start rubbing his chest....."thich khong?"(like?)..... instead of 'thich' (Yes), he points at the stars and says 'dep'(pretty)...... I will NEVER understand the Vietnamese..... I take it as a polite evasion..... but Lisa later points out that he didn't say 'khong' (NO).....

Lisa starts a bon fire at the beach.....it's a German thing :-(

In return......I launch a Thai/Chinese Wishing Lantern

22:00

ENOUGH of the birthday party

Time to take it back to my house...LOTS more alcohol..... he still says "I can sleep here or go home. No matter".... OH FUCK.......SCREW this..... I step WAY out of my extremely shy comfort zone ....I don't kiss him and I don't hug him...I simply start unbuttoning his shirt..... one button at a time starting at the top.....flesh contact...then I start on the belt of his pants....he volunteers to help......I pull his pants down......oh yeah, he DOES REALLY like it......

Lazy lover, inexperienced lover, who knows.... maybe that's a price one has to pay as an older man.... and he's not the cuddler I expected...... ah well.....one step at a time

23:00
he sleeps naked and he SNORES !!!

Thursday, 30 April 2020

Happy Reunification Day, Viet Nam !!!

Today is a very special day....

.....proud and hard-fought-for memories for some:

....a black day in the history books for others:

Guess whose side I am on:

45 years ago today, the People's Army of Vietnam finally ended decades and decades and decades of foreign rule by various foreign powers (China, France, Japan, France, USA) by liberating Saigon....

Just last night I was talking to people about what this country would be like if The Other Side had won...... we all agreed that we would not want to be here if that were the case......

Cam on rat nhieu, Viet Nam ! (I am actually shedding 'patriotic tears' while writing this)